
Better relationships need better communication and that is what NLP is all about. From it's origins in the 1970s, NLP has studied excellent communicators such as Fritz Perls who created Gestalt Therapy, Virginia Satir the "grandmother of family therapy" and Doctor Milton Erickson who was largely responsible for modern hynotherapy.
All of these people had an almost uncanny ability to "connect" with people in a way that led to them being able to make extraordinary changes in their lives. Each used a slightly different way of communication but the thing is that each of these communication styles are effective in specific situations. Because these language patterns have been mapped out in a format where anybody can learn to use them, it means that communication and the quality of your relationships can be accurately predicted and are within your control.
There were other studies done too on things like, what makes for a good marriage or couples relationship?
Research was carried out on 1,000s of couples and we can now accurately predict whether or not a couple will be together at the end of a twelve year period. Not only that it is now possible to tell which year they will break up in.
Relationships are a science and as such are predictable and measurable. What I mean by that last sentence is that we also know which behaviours will lead to a long lasting relationship. We know about how conflicts in relationships play out and about the three different types of conflict. We know how to get Better Relationships Using NLP as a system which doesn't mean that your relationships become predictable.
On the contrary it's more like learning new moves when you are dancing with someone and gives you more choices for fun and relaxation.
If you'd like to discover more about how you can get more out of your relationships them come along to Petone Library Meeting rooms for a free 90 minute, mini workshop at 6:15 pm on Tuesday, 10th of July 2012.
This workshop is particularly suited to those who want more peace, harmony, influence and cooperation in their relationships with other people. So that may include you as well...